On BL Games

From the Couple Pose game — where BL actors draw random cards with poses like back hugs or carrying each other and recreate them on stage — to the Whisper Challenge, where one actor wears headphones while the other whispers a phrase he must guess, BL fan meetings are packed with playful, intimate moments. Fans cheer as sticky notes are placed on various spots — from face to chest, even right by the abs — and the actors are expected to remove them using only their lips. On top of that, there’s reading short fan fiction or thirst posts on stage, where fans eagerly wait for the actors’ live reactions, and of course, the ever-dangerous “near kiss” moment as the BL couple bites on a thin cookie stick, stopping just before their lips touch. These BL games are not just side activities — they’re an essential, expected part of any BL fan meeting, so, why do these games matter so much? 1. They reward loyal fans through fan service- Fans invest heavily in their ships— their favorite BL couples — and these games are a way for the actors to give back. By feeding into fan fantasies and creating off-screen close moments, they deliver the fan service the audience craves. 2. They offer unscripted glimpses into the actor’s chemistry- BL fans are always eager to see the “realness” behind the on-screen magic. These games reveal the natural dynamic and authentic connection between the actors, something scripted scenes can’t fully capture. 3. They showcase natural, spontaneous reactions- From playful teasing to moments of embarrassment or frustration, the games allow fans to see the actors’ genuine personalities. In the end, what fans take home is the sense of true friendship and authentic bond between the leads. 4. They ignite tension, excitement and unpredictability- BL games blur the line between fantasy and reality. The thrill of “near kisses” or flirty interactions keeps fans on the edge of their seats, unsure of what will happen next — and that unpredictability is electrifying. 5. They reveal the actor’s fun and silly sides- For actors who often play heavy, emotional roles in their dramas, the games offer a refreshing change of pace. Fans get to see a new, playful side of their favorite stars, adding more layers to their admiration. 6. They strengthen the community through shared experiences- BL is a community-driven genre, and these games deepen fan bonds. The collective gasps, cheers, and screams during a tense or funny game moment unite fans in a shared emotional experience. 7. They create a safe, celebratory space for romance and representation. BL games provide fans with a space to openly enjoy affection, romance, and LGBTQ+ representation in a way that’s light, fun, and inclusive — something deeply meaningful for many in the fandom. BL games go beyond simply showing the actors’ chemistry; they are a celebration of the BL fandom itself. These moments create shared experiences, strengthen community bonds, and make fan meetings unforgettable.