High Fives Science

At BL fan meetings, fans often pay extra for a high five session with their favorite actors. At first glance, it might seem like just a quick slap of hands—but there’s actually a deeper science behind why that fleeting moment feels so impactful. Here’s why:

Touch Psychology

Human touch triggers the release of oxytocin, often called the “bonding hormone.” Even something as brief as a high five can lower stress and create a feeling of closeness. For BL fans, that single tap on the palm isn’t just skin-to-skin contact—it’s a chemical reassurance that says: “I was with my favorite BL actor. I connected with him in real life, in real time.”

Reality Proof

In the BL world, actors are often perceived only through screens, posters, and livestreams, which can make them feel almost untouchable. A high five breaks that illusion. It becomes physical proof that these actors are real, standing just a few feet away, and for those few seconds, they acknowledge your presence.

A Micro-Memory That Lingers

Psychology tells us that emotionally charged interactions often leave lasting memories. A BL fan might forget the exact scenes of a series, but she’ll vividly remember the brief warmth of that high five. Why? Because it’s tied to adrenaline, excitement, and direct human contact—ingredients that etch moments into memory.

Equality in the Gesture

Unlike a staged photo op, the gesture of a high five creates an element of equality. In that instant, the BL actor and the fan meet at the same level—hand to hand, palm to palm. It’s a brief moment of shared energy, where they mirror each other, equalizing all boundaries and deepening the sense of connection.

Why High Fives Matter

So why do BL fan meetings charge extra for a high five? Because organizers understand the psychology behind it: fans crave brief moments of real connection, a reward for months of watching, supporting, and loving their favorite actors. And when the event ends, fans leave not just with photos or merch, but with a lingering memory—the touch, the high five, the fleeting seconds that brought them closer than ever to the star they adore.